AKA how to not be weird here
I want this to be a safe space where we can all be honest about our struggles without judgment. But there are still some basic rules because the internet is… the internet.
Be Kind
We’re all here trying to figure things out. If someone shares something vulnerable, don’t be rude about it. You can disagree without being mean. If you wouldn’t say it to your best friend going through a rough time, don’t say it here.
No Body Shaming (Seriously)
This includes yourself. I get that we’re all working on feeling better about ourselves, but constantly tearing yourself down in the comments isn’t it. We’re trying to BUILD each other up here, not compete for who feels the worst.
Keep It Real But Respectful
Share your fails, your wins, your mess. That’s literally what we’re here for. But if you’re going through something heavy like an eating disorder or self-harm, I’m glad you’re here but please also talk to a professional. I’m just a girl with a blog, not a therapist.
No Spam or Selling Stuff
Don’t use this space to promote your MLM, crypto scheme, or whatever else. If I wanted to see that I’d be on Facebook. This isn’t that kind of party.
Respect Privacy
Don’t share other people’s personal info or screenshots from here elsewhere. What’s shared in this community stays in this community. Basic human decency, you know?
If You Break These Rules
Look, I don’t want to be the fun police. But if you’re consistently being rude, mean, or making people uncomfortable, I’ll remove your comments or block you. I want everyone to feel safe here, and sometimes that means showing someone the door.